In this podcast episode, I spoke with Yvonne Caputo, a trainer and expert on emotions and stress management. We discussed how negative emotions, often misunderstood, can be helpful guides in our lives. Yvonne shared powerful insights on recognizing, naming, and understanding emotions to improve our mental and emotional well-being.
Here are three key takeaways from our conversation:
Takeaway 1: Negative Emotions Are Like Stop Signs
Yvonne explained that negative emotions act as internal stop signs. When we feel angry, sad, or frustrated, it’s like hitting a stop sign while driving. These feelings are signals to pause, reflect, and decide the safest way forward. By naming our emotions, we activate the thinking part of our brain. This helps us respond with care instead of reacting without thought.
Takeaway 2: Emotions Live in the Body
Our emotions don’t just stay in our minds—they show up in our bodies too. Stress might feel like tightness in the chest or a heavy feeling in the stomach. Yvonne encourages us to notice these signs and ask, “What is my body trying to tell me?” This awareness helps us identify our emotions and handle them in healthy ways.
Takeaway 3: Naming Emotions Brings Relief
Yvonne shared research showing that naming emotions can actually calm the brain. When we say, “I feel angry” or “I’m grieving,” our brain releases chemicals that reduce pain and stress. This small but powerful step can make difficult emotions easier to manage.
This episode reminded us that negative emotions are not bad—they’re signals to guide us toward safety and understanding. By naming and noticing them, we can learn to process our feelings and grow stronger. Whether it’s grief, anger, or stress, giving emotions a voice helps us navigate life with more clarity and peace.


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